Mother in July 1934 was born in Linchuan a less than 10 households in the isolated mountain village, no schooling,UGGs, can not read, illness had not been out of the township; mother never fought as a soldier, nor when director of the village women had even so much official, she is like as small dust, like weeds as common; but for me, mother, west of the strain the eyes of even the mountain (in Fengcheng County) also blocked not live, the mother mind as to the south (Pool) music (On) line extensions as boundless, his mother's love as endless as the east of the Fu River ... ...
memorable mother's tenacity. Mother only 157 centimeters tall and weighing less than 50 kg, thin body is a vast reservoir of strength and amazing resilience. For old maiden is always the care of rural women, her family's disaster even in her husband's misfortune. Maternal grandfather, grandmother passed away early, but the people engaged in fairly prosperous, birth to three boys and three girls, the mother is the eldest daughter, married families and jiu Nancheng mine to work in the second uncle to study at a university in Nanjing, Law, and three small read primary and secondary schools, with financial support and the mother jiu, philanthropic, political two uncle can foresee the future, life compact and full of hope. However, the beginning of the Cultural Revolution, almost brought destruction to this house and blow. After the Cultural Revolution began the first summer, two uncle and a few of the educated youth hanging around the house the same village to resolve monotonous, boring life, occasionally talking about the State Meet with current affairs, rural anecdotes, personal fate, this is neither theft, gambling, not fight, fight the party in the countryside as an alternative and garish look. A few months later, they became the first commune-wide counter-revolutionary group. Second, by the uncle once awe-inspiring cast aside the counter-revolutionary students into Jiao Ren, every day the face of endless interrogation and tortured. Mother's instructions and disregard others looked down upon, daily meal delivery to the second uncle, always pretending to be easy to tell the two uncle: saying: said: dignity, he was However, bad luck is not over. Second uncle participated in counter-revolutionary and suicide after the news spread jiu units, jiu also been implicated, the original object should marry him immediately and draw a line, timorous jiu can not stand the interrogation unit and the object unsympathetic, with a rope end his own life. Within one month, the mother lost two brothers one after another, she in tears every day, resulting in increased body weakness, vision declined sharply, almost blind. To his two young sons, and to her family of three minor brothers and sisters, the mother has moved out of the sad, weak but firm steps to continue to carry something. Fight with cancer in old age, the mother acted stronger. In 2001, was diagnosed with advanced breast cancer and spread to the lymph mother to the age of 68 and 70 kilos of weight Kangzhu the breast and lymph node resection and the associated four chemotherapy, 2 radiotherapy. In 2004, her mother's illness into a bone cancer, the next two years, my mother have to put up a daily night bite bone cancer pain, the last six months only by a simple oral analgesic. Mother's death, and enjoyed the whole box when you see unopened clonidine, I deeply feel that only a mother lost to cancer in the body, the mother's will and the soul is high the left.
memorable mother's resolute. See the uncle and aunt in the family experienced a major disaster, the bullying, cold, mixed atmosphere of sympathy and help grow the next stubborn, her mother was a comfort, but the face of the age of one after another into the gonna get married uncle and aunt, mother is feeling more pressure. Things at home, tens of miles radius of no do not know, no father and mother, four walls, and counter-revolution has also implicated, such as people who are willing to marry at home. Aunt easy to handle that, find a wife in poor families can not afford to marry, as long as human kind on the line, is simply not available who can find his uncle's wife. So the mother made a special today appears to be arbitrary and inhuman decisions - in other pro. Mother, a neighboring village to find the same problem exists rich peasants, his family has a older son, and a school-age daughter. 2 interchangeable daughter, a rich peasant and a counter-revolutionaries, Private Eyes, who do not find it too. Consent of the other for parents, but the mother did not agree with the qualifications for general aunt, and aunt to superior talent. Although intelligent beautiful aunt can not bear to marry more than 10 years of age and older than she looks ugly man, but continue to incense his uncle home, the mother or the decision made by the other's conditions for the pro. Her family's problem-solving, and ten years later, the mother in-laws are also facing a similar thorny problem, this time is the son of a bride. Our family is poor and the famous, eight people crammed into two small rooms 7-8 level, there is one is borrowed. In 1980, Big Brother Wait until the older brother to marry his wife, the Sichuan not so poor, more severe blow to the traffickers, and would like to re-take the big brother of the road has been impossible. Brother a few problems with objects not because the house into, insert the door down, they do not want. It seems that brother-law to solve the problem, we must first solve the family's house. In 1986, the production team to sell the former granary, a four old houses, building area of about 70 flat, price 3700 yuan. To brother married a wife, mother decided to buy, not just for family surprise, leaving whole village accident, how could that be? Mother all means, take out all relatives, raising to 3,000 yuan, 700 yuan is still less than the borrowed. Mother made the decision even more surprising, the only one home sold for 700 yuan cattle, this is relying on the peasants to eat. After three years, whether it is spring or summer planting, we are not cattle. But not beat the mother, the mother is willing to take over for the pro, but also presided over Whose dry day living. Decisive not only to help the mother's brother married in 1987 on the wife, and three years to bring our brother four excellent temper. After that, whenever encountered difficulties, we will overcome the spirit of an ox, in fact, those three years to the owner of the cows in the work we often sang , far more than, what is there to complain about. Decisive mother's life also changed the Fourth Brother. In 1984, I, and Fourth Brother also admitted to high school, I was one of Linchuan, Fourth Brother is Linchuan III. At that time, the family was the only one, we do not draw, Fourth Brother initiative to withdraw, he said he was physically and good farming. Since then,Discount UGG boots, the 14-year-old Fourth Brother have to do unskilled laborer on the construction site in Nanchang, he wrote a letter to his father occasionally would say, see Nanchang street youth carrying a school bag to school age, slapstick situation and their own sour mood mother always hear secretly Ma Lei. In 1987, I was admitted to the ideal of the university, and chose the professional political class. To college, I worked at the site of the Fourth Brother to write, hope he will not be discouraged, it is unskilled laborer in the future can do labor contractor, the boss, so that we two brothers, one from the political and the other came from the economic Revitalising the family. In my selfish, childish and empty to encourage Fourth Brother, my mother has made to Fourth Brother to repeat the decision of the temple, I was also not have to pay college tuition, the burden slightly lighter at home more, neighbors said the mother stupid, that you are 18 years old, ranks the fourth home, make money, and do not touch the books more than three years, and now spend money to read three days of high school there three years in the future if the test into college, more than 20 years old, has not earned the money, even the wife can not find. Mother still insists on its decision, Fourth Brother does not disappoint the expectations of the mother, only review the more than one semester to the test on the score of the second city, was admitted to a small secondary school, across the high school, into the eyes of the peasants to eat grain of cadres, subsequently, Fourth Brother has finished college self-study, undergraduate studies, is now the capital city of white-collar workers.
forget the selfless mother. Every mother is selfless, never pay in return, like good food, good clothing is always available with the elderly and children, can monopolize only the worst jobs. My mother was a great shock for her own funeral arrangements or design. Some superstitious mothers holidays, the temple worship must worship, who started burning incense should aim for the children and accumulating virtue, pray. The final stage of her life, Grandma was always reading about the blessed generation, died not into the stove, heart, would like his son through relationships, find people,Discount UGG boots, secretly burial, afraid to bother children, it was never mentioned. My heart has been looking for work in the Bureau of Civil Affairs to help students plan, is not to violate national laws, where the practice of cremation in our pure formalism, first burned after death, then into the burial urns used buried in a large coffin, and buried where, accounting for more than the earth, regardless of government, the implementation of cremation, burial two people to spend additional money for cremation. The result is the poorest and the richest have the right to be burial, the former are not afraid of township and village cadres and dig a grave (no blackmail value), which township and village cadres or not, or close the NPC price. Among these people to be cremated, one offspring a little face, but the price Chubu Qi, buried afraid dig a grave, a construction supervisor working in the provincial capital's grandfather is buried has been dug up again after the cremation, the money to, but not enough, township and village cadres Fenzangbujun cause report. Mother know about this, forget that, do not waste money, eyes closed, which burned on the fire. January 26, 2006 (lunar calendar December 21), the mother left. Father, my mother always asked him a few days before dying what day it is, that should never catch up with the New Year, our village have a custom, buried the third day after death, a small lunar year (December 23) after the death of the person to go to be buried three days of the first month. New Year's Eve, but his mother felt quite in order for the whole family could enjoy the In fact, we more than survive for days as long as the mother, even one day more than we can accompany one day, we really do not care about the New Year at home with no body, because it is not body, is our mother, alive and is dead still is. Wished, before the mother buried in the taboo. Silly mother, she thought so we can have a good year, how can we have a good years. Mother's calculations not stop, she took the day eating breakfast, because the day she was superstitious people go to eat less, to future generations the wealth of the more left. She returned to their own hit a hit a few g), the locals all know,UGG shoes, hit For a superstition of rural elderly, to children's future, their calculation was to go and endless love for us.
memorable mother's optimism. Mother that she was eaten countless hardships, but do not complain; encountered numerous setbacks, but do not despair. During the production team, outside the village to teach his father, mother, it is necessary to participate in productive labor force, but also chopped wood, grew vegetables, pigs, and we take care of Grandma. Production team work-point sub-rations on a monthly basis in our house 7 people eat, a person earning only mothers work points and work-point far enough, my father handed to the poor wages for work-point production team in exchange for rations. Sometimes wage open late, we will go hungry. Watch Mianhuangjishou, Aoao children to be food, the mother always under thick skinned, go from house to house for grain. At that time, the mother's physical and psychological tolerance to the limit, she always used the case to our morale but also to their support: so you grow up, they earn credits at, then we home rations points more than someone's all. day. Then, after some years, we fly like a bird like the village, and find the food, only to the New Year the same as when migratory birds from as far apart back to the mother's side. Each New Year is our happiest time is our most shameful moment. Mother most students trained village, but lived in the village's most broken homes. Although these children are college students, graduate students what can be after graduation than when ordinary cadres, that is, a teacher, staff member, not a businessman, have braved a large loan to do house slaves, collected hundreds of thousands missing, 80 000 to build a new house mother. Mothers also know our thoughts, always comfort us: see a doctor to spend more money than building a house of even more, the village people say you filial, no one jokes to you, you have a house in the city, I and your dad used to live in old house more. you are now also house the money, but also do not be afraid, look to the future, wages can not fall up, only gets better every day. After surgery, his mother active in accordance with the requirements of medical chemotherapy, radiation therapy, injections, medication, do exercise rehabilitation, hospital soon after his father and accompanied Fourth Brother play Nanchang People's Park, Palace in the, by Jane, and even went to the Lushan . So to see other children, the mother should talk about the beauty of Lushan Mountain, Lushan good, joy was palpable. Back in the rural areas, as long as it does not rain, my mother and father went to the back of the house of dried grain field walks, welcoming glow of morning, evening sunset view, listen to the birds in spring and autumn smell insects. Physically better, the mother will, accompanied by his father and goes far more, or to the north of the river while watching waves rise and fall, the fish jump; or to the west of the railroad next to the shuttle to see pedestrians, trains in the past, and Guess what with his father, the son of a sudden just passing train ride home;, or to dig a small hill south of vegetables, picking flowers, mother's favorite gardenia, won few gave grandson play, won more than to do it into food to eat. Hard to believe that innocent people late mother was a cancer patient, it is this face of life's optimism that the mother survived for 5 years after surgery, the doctor far more than the chief surgeon at that time under the mother's body to expectations.
Sometimes I think, very like her mother's favorite gardenia, then the general, everywhere in the south, the mountains and plains bloom; less hardy, can be sown, ramets, cuttings, layering, the flowers are from 5 month open until August, a little water to grow, to the point of the sun on the flowers; so selfless, root, fruit can be used as medicine, flowers can be dependent eyes, refreshing ... ...
Ching Ming times, gardenia yet open, given the right to this I argue as a bunch of gardenia for my mother never miss.
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